It's almost impossible to see the tiny screenshot (I like to use
http://imageshack.us to get bigger pictures, inline) but I can see it just well enough to see that you are viewing in Project/Planning mode, not Context mode. If you view your actions in Context mode, you should be happier, because that will shuffle the actions into the appropriate groups, whereas project view only does it by the project, not the action, and this project can start any time.
I made what I think is a rough replica of your project to illustrate:
Now view in Context mode, remaining actions, sorted into appropriate groups:
Context mode, available actions: (feeding the worms, with start date in the future, does not appear)
In general, the idea is that you do your planning work in the planning/project view, and actually select items to do in the context view. You can certainly work out of planning/project view, and I used to do that quite a bit, but the tool usually works better the other way.