[whpalmer4]

Yeah, I'm not quite sure what you're trying to accomplish here. If you both want to have identical databases that you can both change and have the changes appear in the other's databases (on both iPhone and desktop), you can do it by having everything sync with one (1) MobileMe account (you would still need two OmniFocus licenses, unless only one of you was ever running the desktop version at a time). You may have the occasional collision if you both decide to work on the same tasks at once (buying the contents of the grocery list, for example). As I don't use the iCal sync stuff, I make no predictions about how well that will work. If you're trying to do something trickier where you each have your own private projects that don't appear in the other's "world" and some shared projects, OmniFocus isn't the program for you, as it just isn't built with that in mind.