[DrJJWMac]

My first thought is, you may want to reconsider the CONTEXT versus PROJECT / FOLDER paradigm. For example, to me, Shopping is more a context than a project folder, and Accounts is more a project than a context. This would allow you to view non-accounts related actions only simply by not viewing that project. It would also allow you to see only those actions that are not personal contexts (Shopping) simply by not viewing that context.

In another respect, perhaps you are running up against the limitation of how best to assign projects or tasks to PEOPLE in OF. The two diametric schools of thought seem to be 1) use folders or 2) use contexts.

Method 1 (Folders)
Personal
- Shopping
- Spouse
- Hobbies
Work
- Website
- Client X
- Reports

Method 2 (Contexts)
@People
- Spouse
- Client X

This is all a starting point for consideration rather than a straight up solution. Hope it helps you find something that works.